Friday, August 14, 2009

Would you give it a go? Would you help someone else?

When I meet someone who is sick or in pain, I will share about Quantum-Touch and the other tools that I am familiar with (both mine as well as other therapists) that could be of help. My goal is not to convince them but rather, to provide them with additional resources. Hence, I will talk briefly about it and if they are keen, I will share more. If they are skeptical, I will give them my namecard and ask them to read my blog if they would like to know more about it.

If I choose to keep quiet for whatever reasons, then I deprive them of the opportunity of having another option. At the same time, if you are unwell, would you give yourself an opportunity to have additional options?

This morning, a friend shared with me about her friend whose mother possibly has leukemia. They are waiting for additional tests to confirm. So I told my friend that her friend might consider getting her (she's QT trained) to work on her mum. Complementary therapy to the doctor's treatments. My friend shared that this friend is utterly closed to Quantum-Touch but knowing my friend, she'll probably give it another shot.

It is unfortunate that this person made a decision for her mum without even giving her mum the option to decide. Am keeping my fingers crossed that she will change her mind. :)

In the same way, many people close options for their family or friends simply by not passing on information because they decide that it would not work.

With more options, the road to recovery is certainly brighter. And even if there's no recovery (we are not the creator, just helpers), the road is a lot smoother and less painful. These are the benefits that those with an open mind have discovered.

So, would you give it a go for a brighter possibility? Would you pass on information that will benefit someone else?

2 comments:

Kenneth said...

My master told me a story about the four types of lotus.

The first type of lotus opens up fast in the morning to greet the sun.

The second type of lotus is slower than the first type, but will eventually open up.

The third type sometimes opens, but sometimes does not.

The fourth type is below the water and will never open.

Demanding that the third and fourth be forcefully opened is akin to wasting one's time.

Even in the first condition, the perfect timing and conducive environment can only wait for the ready lotus. Vice-versa.

Bernadette Chua said...

:) :) :)