Sunday, March 30, 2008

Follow and trust in your intuition and abilities

When I first started in this energy work, as with everything new, it took me a while to follow and trust in my intuition. I was more “methodological” about the whole process ie, following strictly to the step by step of what I should do. (Note: the word “should” always imply someone else’s input/ idea and not yours). Of course, as newbie, it is good to practice what has been taught. At the same time, be open to letting go and start to follow your intuition and go with the flow.

As I grew more confident, and started to trust in my feel and intuition, the results for my clients significantly improved. Here are two stories that I would like to share to inspire you to start trusting in your intuition and abilities!

Case 1: My First Paying Client
M was my first paying client and I did a session for her in Feb last year. She’s from Scotland and had found me on the QT website. Since she was in Singapore for a holiday, she wanted to have a QT session as well. Being my first “professional” client, I was naturally a little stressed. Imagine how that level increased when upon arriving, I found out that she’s in perfect health (Oh no, how is she going to experience the difference or rate any pain difference!!!!), is a trained in NLP, Hypnosis etc and has friends in the healing modality!!! Of course, outwardly I was calm and confident (heehee, I am a professional trainer after all) and inwardly I was all nerves and highly stressed. The comfort I received was the fact that she exudes utter joy and radiance so I know that she’s nice. Won’t be a nasty client! Since she is in perfect health, we decided to work on her bunion (stressed!!! My first time working on a bunion!!!) and her jaw which she felt was misaligned. As I got into the breathing and allowing space, my stress melted away and I started to enjoy myself regardless of the outcome.

Now, M and I have become good friends. Early this year, when she was in town, I did another session for her for general well being. After the session, she commented that my "flow" is even better than before. I believe it's because I've added Supercharge to my toolbox. At the same time, it also the fact that I am now totally in the blissful joyous flow each time when I'm in a session and depending on the need that I "sense", I will switch to different techniques at different parts of the session - matching the client's body's intelligence of what's more suited at that stage.


Case 2: My Therapist
My massage therapist (who's also in this healing modality) asked me for a session. As with most of us, we often spend a lot of time on others but not on ourselves. So she and I decide to do an energy exchange. I'll give her a therapy session while she gave me a lympathatic massage.


She shared that she was feeling some tension on her lower back and hip area. I shared that I'll work on that as well as her back. And then, I will just go with the flow and follow my intuition as I sense her body's flow and needs.


My experience: I started off with Supercharge and sent her the 12 colours. Next I used Core; steam release for her hips, legs followed by wombing+ leveraging open a joint. Then I started on her vertebrae and shoulders using steam release plus wombing + tractor beam. As I started on her neck, I switched to wombing + "poking" (here, it was only the top and bottom that needed work). When that was done, I started to work on her jaw (felt prompt to spend quite a bit of time here), cheek, eyes and top of head using wombing + tractor beam. When that was done, I switched to reconnective and had a enjoyable working on her whole body. Was initially thinking of ending the session by asking her to do the pouring forward from Core but instead, I ended with putting her into a deeper relaxing trance and "embed" powerful positive resources for her. The words and thoughts just flowed, with a strong focus on "putting the past to past. enjoying the now now." (Dunno where that came from but I've learnt to just trust my "voice").


Client's experience: Upon "waking" she shared she felt lighter and very good. Her hip/ back tension was gone. Throughout the session, she felt like she was in a nice jelly-like bubble. Then she shared that she felt movements in her back, neck (here she confirmed that it was only the top and bottom part that has tension!) and that she felt her her jaw going back to alignment. Apparently, it was out of alignment after her recent tooth extraction which she forgot to share with me!! Then, she started to "dream" of being in outer space, very relaxed and blissful state (reconnection does that at times!!!!) and towards the end of the session, she found herself in a very ultra relaxed state. She was also reminded of a "promise" that she made to herself that she will not live and wallow in the past. Instead, to enjoy the now and future.


To-date, this is my most interesting session. It affirms me to further trust and follow my intuition and go with the flow. That night, I received an sms from her: "My dear, thanks alot for the wonderful session and am grateful. Feeling much lighter on my back. My jaw was out of aligment (left) after my tooth extraction. Now it's ok. Great!"


It is I who am grateful to her for giving me the opportunity to learn and be of help. She is the healer not I.

Blending Healing Modalities

I believe in the richness of life and all its possibilities, that there is so much yet to be discovered and learnt – we are always an ongoing student of LIFE! Naturally, this extends to the way I absorb information and at the same time, influences the way I design and develop my training programmes for coporate clients (a blend of all the different styles/ methodology from NLP to Accelerated Learning to Quantum-Touch to Service Learning) and now, it richly enhances my therapy session for clients (from QT, Supercharge, Core Transformation, Coaching, Reconnective to NLP).

That’s the reason why I am turn off by trainers, companies, authors or founders who insist that their way is the only way! Such arrogance, such narrow-mindedness! Instead I find myself highly attracted to people and programmes that have an abundant mentality at its core!! Quantum-Touch definitely has an abundant mentality and it’s the reason why I decided to be certified as an instructor!!

Everybody is unique and it also means that everybody’s model of the world is different. I believe in blending and combining all that I’ve learnt and use it at a space and time that works best for each client. One tool may be more suitable to match the client’s preference for example, Quantum-Touch as a healing modality is easily accepted by a lot of people. And at other times, you can use a blend of different tools when the client is more open to the idea. It also means the confidence to trust in your own skills, intuition and abilities!!!

Flexibility, that’s the key.
Follow and trust your intuition, that’s the personal mantra.

Tuesday, March 25, 2008

Experiences from Core Transformation 1

It seems like I've waited for a long time to realise my dream of being an instructor yet at the same time, I am in no hurry if you understand what I mean. And as we've realised, the Universe does have its flow and timing. And so last weekend, I was at Core Transformation 1 class.

Like my fellow course mates and friends in the class, we are really grateful to Alain and QT for organisng an advanced class here in Singapore cos' we are a long way from the US!


Alain is as amazing and nice as I've been told by people who have attended his classes before. I enjoyed his sense of humour and admire his wisdom and substance. This guy truly knows what he is doing and talking about!!!

My friend Yvonne remarked that I am in love with Core. Indeed I am. It's Yin energy and I find it extremely gentle, soothing and just over a couple of days, I experienced inner change and growth. That for me, is added bliss.

Immediate Sensations from Distance Healing

I've often done distance healing for friends and loved ones but rarely had the chance to be distanced by someone.

Well yesterday, my friend Bingjie and I decided to do an energy exchange. I'll work on her mum's trigger finger while she will help me with my weight loss. We'll do this for a week and then give feedback on results.

Last evening, I was on my way to meet up with some friends when I felt interesting sensations running through my whole body. Prickly. Itchy. So I smsed Bingjie.

My sms to her: Wondering, did you do session for me earlier? Body feeling 'interesting' sensations.
Her reply: I just did it 5 mins ago! Overall charging for your whole body. Just finished.

Wow. Amazing isn't it?

Friday, March 21, 2008

Core Transformation 1

Last year, I planned to attend the Supercharging workshop in Belgium but due to a series of events, I had to cancel my spot in the class.

Well, the Universe always have good stuff in store for us!

This evening, I will be attending the Core Transformation workshop which is held for the first time in Singapore. Exciting, isn't it? I'm really looking forward to the whole experience, and I can feel it in my bones that it'll be awesome!!

Sunday, March 9, 2008

Turbo Charge of Energy

There may be times when you need to turbo charge your energy, be it to finish up a school project, to complete a work project deadline or just to get through the day. This is where QT can give you that extra energy boost.

Two weeks ago, I was rushing to complete a project deadline. As it sometimes happen :), just when there's a deadline to meet, the things that can possibly go haywire does! I had started work early that morning at about 7am, thinking I'll complete it by 6pm that day. Instead, I ended up working through the night till 4am the next morning and continuing at 7am.

I know that I only made it through because I took moments in between to QT myself and also, my friend Yvonne sent me distance QT as well!

Now, I am not suggesting that you use QT to keep late nights. Your body NEEDS REST!!! Workaholics, please please listen to and love your body!

For me, I really needed to meet the project deadline that night and so I'm grateful that I had QT to "help" me cope. You can use QT too for an extra boost of energy when you need it. But like I said, do get enough rest after that. I sure did, I took the next day off to relax and chill out.