Saturday, January 30, 2010

Being Love

To be love, one important step is to be able to love yourself first. Without fully appreciating your own goodness, strengths and yes, even the parts that ain't that great, it will be challenging to fully unconditionally love and appreciate someone else.

To be love also means the ability to care for others. And this extends to people beyond your circles.

To be love is an opening of your heart, an abundant mindset, generous in spirit and kind in actions. Because of the diversity of needs, how one chooses to be love can be totally unique. It need not follow a set pattern nor strategy.

In past two weeks, two persons inspired me by their example of what it means to be love.

Love 1 smsed me one day to enquire about purchasing healing sessions for her new colleague who has been diagnosed with advanced stomach cancer. He was completely surprised by her gesture and extremely thankful for this gift of love. In fact, he shared with her that his family and friends asked him why his colleague would help him cos' she is after all a stranger. She shared with me that whenever she sees him at the store, he is always smiling. And so she thought she would like to lend a hand of hope at this challenging phase of his life. Touched by her gesture, I've offered her a discounted fee for a package specially designed for him . Besides intensive QT healing sessions, I will also be coaching him on QT techniques as well as doing a chakra scan and enhancement session.

Love 2 attended a course recently and invited a colleague who was attending the same course to join her for lunch at Seah Street Deli (Raffles Hotel). He readily agreed. When they were seated at the table, she observed that he seems very uncomfortable. He then shared that it was his first visit to a "posh" restaurant as he comes from a lower income family. She immediately sought subtle ways to put him at ease and when the bill came, she told him it was her treat as she invited him. Kindness served on a platter.

To some, being love means making time to be a volunteer. That's one way. In our daily living, there are also countless opportunities for us to be love. For many, it also takes discipline to be love ie, make it a conscious decision to do kind deeds so that it becomes a way of life. You need not necessarily search for opportunities but when an opportunity arises, grab it.

Tuesday, January 26, 2010

Blossoming...

When I opened my eyes this morning, a word flashed across my mind - "HIBERNATION". Yup, that pretty much described the state that I have been feeling for the past weeks.

Sure, it is not a pure hibernating mode as I still operate in a breathing living operating world. Yet other than the private sessions for my clients and the appointments with family and friends, I have pretty much been...hibernating. Resting and recharging.

Hibernations always come to an end.

Today, I started a massive decluttering exercise. We have little needs but many wants. Decluttering is a great way to energise positive flow of energy and usher in a new phase.

Over the next few days and week ahead, I will continue the decluttering process of my physical belongings. At the same time, will also declutter my mind of any limiting beliefs as well as declutter any boxed up emotions.

Lighter. Refreshed.


Tuesday, January 5, 2010

Integrity

A year has flown by quickly since I made the decision to fly free and do this full time. I was blessed to meet many "teachers" along the way who have generously shared their insights and lessons gained on their own paths.

One of the key teaching points is that of integrity.

For everyone, integrity is a value that's essential for life's journey. For us on the healing path, integrity becomes a way of life as it determines the positive flow of energy. From micro such as keeping clients' confidentiality, completing the scheduled time frame for a session (you can do more but never less than the assigned time), connecting a client to someone else who can be of better help..... The macro of love as the basis for what we do, keeping a positive intention in all we do and an abundance mentality.

All the skills and gifting that we possess are tools to be used for the betterment of others as well as to help ourselves. The joy and bliss comes from being of service rather than how skilled/ clever we become.