Tuesday, June 29, 2010

Change helplessness to helpfulness

A dear friend called me this morning. She's just heard the news that one of her ex-teachers have been diagnosed with stage 4 cancer. Naturally the news made her sad. She wondered if there's anything she could do.

"You can send your teacher healing energy via distance healing".

At that, she visibly brightened up. Yes, when one has a tool, we can change helplessness to helpfulness. That's wonderful isn't it?

Distance Healing

Regular readers of this blog will know how much I love distance healing. It cuts across geography, time, distance, relationship and impossibility barriers.
  • You can send healing energy to a loved one even if they are not with you.
  • You can do it anytime, great for those who are busy busy busy in the normal waking hours.
  • It does not matter if the person is 1 meter or 10,000 metres away from you, its just as effective.
  • You can still send healing energy to the person even if he or she is angry with you and having a cold war
  • Amazing as it sounds, practitioners of distance healing knows it works.
The other day, I was doing a general well-being session for a friend's dad via distance healing. After the session, I shared with her that it appears that her dad needed more energy at his lower back as well as his eyes so I spent more time on these two areas. She was surprised that I "knew" where to focus my attention on even though she did not mention it. Her dad suffers from chronic back ache and glaucoma. Yes indeed, distance healing is not less effective as some practitioners believe. You can still "feel" and chase the pain remotely. :)

I am glad that I am seeing an increasingly number of graduates who are gung-ho about using distance healing. It is so very useful and utterly practical!

Wednesday, June 23, 2010

Integrity

Received an sms from a client/ friend requesting for my HappyPrint Scan for herself and the HappyPrint Scan for effective parenting for her two kids.

I replied that the scan would certainly be useful for her kids. As for herself, she need not do the scan as she has done so previousy. Instead, I recommended her to go for another therapist's session which I feel would benefit her more.
She shared that she appreciates my integrity.

Integrity. That's a key value and being needed especially in our healing profession. We need to recommend what's needed to benefit the client and not what benefits our business or bank accounts.

I've adhered to this strictly these past years. As a result, my clients trust and follow my recommendations because they know that it will be useful for them. If its one session needed, then its one. If its five sessions needed, then its five. If its a combinations of complementary therapies, then it is as such.

Set the foundation strong and a good abundant practice follows.

Monday, June 21, 2010

Sharing from a client

The following is a sharing from a client. It was written in Mandarin. Thanks K for helping with the translation!

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当我第一次听到Quantum-Touch时全然地不理解是什么。
I had entirely no idea what ‘Quantum-Touch’ was when I first heard about it.

可是心中有一块沉重的石头压力,而负面情绪急躁甚至反复忧 郁不欢,见什么都怕。
But I had always felt an immense pressure as though a heavy rock was placed on me. I was negative and temperamental till the extent of depression and had a constant fear of everything.

当我知道可以通过QT冥想克服 心理的恐慌症,就衷心地希望会好起来不须要长期寻求心理医生并吃药。
When I heard that the visualization in QT could aid me in overcoming my phobias, I had a firm seed of hope planted in me where I could gradually recover and stop the need to consult the psychiatrist or take the medication.

QT可以教导我,让我释放和接受自我。应该停止判断,接 受自己当下的真实面貌。让我明白了为什么不快乐而陷入情绪低潮。
QT taught me how to let go and accept myself; that I should stop judging myself and accept my real self. It let me realized why I was unhappy and what led me into the descending spiral of negative emotions.

可以静下心看一看天空颜色和綠色的植物,听一听周围声音,细细咀 嚼食物,
将注意力放在每一个小事物,心情自然会放松许多,用呼吸来感受自己的存 在。
I could stop myself to appreciate the color of the sky and the greenery, listen to the sounds in the environment, savor food at my own pace, and focus my attention on every intricate detail. Naturally it led me to feel more relaxed, and with every breath I felt that I lived in the present.

工作中也不会显得手忙脚乱,压力因此减轻不少, 让我可以得到清闲,心情大好和喜乐。
In my work I was confident and firm, thus stress was reduced significantly. It led to a sense of peace, a feeling of positive emotions and joy.

我要感谢你伸出 友谊之手。
I would like to thank you for extending your friendly helping hand.

感恩。
茉莉
With gratitude.
Karen.

Tuesday, June 8, 2010

Seize the affinity

"Carpe Diem! Seize the day. Make your lives extraordinary."

I love this quote that was made mainstream popular by the film Dead Poets Society. Lately, I have added a dimension to it:

"Seize the affinity to make your life extraordinary".

In our lives, we will meet people or be in situations that present opportunities for learning, growth or change. For example, the wise words of our parents, a friend offering help, a recommendation to a workshop or therapist...It is up to us to seize that affinity.

People often tell me that I am blessed to be surrounded by good people, things and opportunities. Indeed. At the same time, one can be surrounded by goodness yet fail to embrace it. Or be surrounded by darkness and seize that proffered ray of light when it comes.

I was blessed to have many hands offering encouragement, help, love, care and concern. I seize the affinity.

In the same way, each day I look forward to offering my hand to help someone else. What I've learnt is that not everyone will or want to accept help. In the past, my heart ached when that happens cos' I have witnessed the wonderous transformation that occurs when help is accepted. My life changed. My clients or family/ friends' lives (those who are open to help) changed. Now, I accept that we can only proffer that helping hand. It is still the other party's choice to accept or walk away.



Thursday, June 3, 2010

Happy. Hope. Heal.

About a month ago, a client engaged me to work via distance healing on her brother-in-law who was diagnosed with stage 4 cancer of both lungs, liver and lymph nodes. He was due for chemo. For sure, it is a challenging case. But as I shared with my client, we do our best. My sessions coupled with her strong care and concern provides a strong vibration of hope. During the sessions, while no physical changes were observed but he appears happy. For me, that is an essential and powerful emotion to feel and be on one's healing journey.

The last I heard, he was responding well to treatment. Very happy to receive the sms update.

We cannot determine the outcome ie whether the person live or not (we are not the creator) but we can give the person our highest and most loving vibrations so that he or she can tap on our strength to boost his or her own.

The sessions also helps to strengthen the body and provides it with an added boost of healing energy. For example, a client engaged me to work on his grandpa who had to go for a heart bypass. We did two sessions prior to the operation. After the op, his grandpa was up and about very quickly.

On my end, I am very glad that I am able to offer my clients an additional tool to help.


Useful tool for active aging!

At my recent QT workshop, a grandmother aged 75 was initially skeptical about her ability to learn QT. By the end of Day 2, when I asked her if she was confident about using QT, she laughingly shared with the class in dialect "It's not about my confidence but whether I can find the time!".

Wow, I was very happy with her candid response. It shows that indeed QT can be learnt by anyone and everyone!

QT is a very useful tool and certainly beneficial to us as we grow wiser by the years. Rather than the body "breaking down" as we grow older, we can grow healthier and stronger by doing regular sessions for ourselves. I hope that increasingly, more and more senior citizens will attend my workshops. Yay!