Smile Catalysts
It is lovely when someone brightens our day, isn't it? The world would certainly be a happier place with the presence of more 'smile catalysts'. In each issue, we will feature a Smile Catalyst; someone who brings smiles to the people in his or her life through their work and/or being.
This month, I would like to feature my grandmas who make us, their family members smile.
I love my grandmas dearly. They are angels who love us grandchildren from the moment they saw us. Who spent their time taking care of us when our parents were at work. Who patiently put up with our childish tantrums when we didn't get what we want. Who comforts us when we are at odds with the world. Who gamely approves our fashion choices (even if it's black clothes for the Lunar New Year). Who weeps with joy when we got married. Who empathise with me when my marriage failed. Who delights in our company. Who loves us for who we are. My grandmas.
Maternal Grandma
My
maternal grandma lives with my uncle and cousin. A few years ago, when
she could still move about by herself, when it was time for me to leave
for home after my visits, she would send me to the door and then look
out of the window to ensure that I'm walking safely home (home at that
time was a street away). I cannot stay too late for my visit each time
because in the eyes of my grandma, I'm forever her young grand-daughter.
And the streets are too dark and unsafe to be staying out too late for a
young girl. I would wave to her energetically from the street, ignoring
the curious stares of bystanders, knowing that a loving pair of eyes is
watching me. My
maternal grandma has always put the needs of others before self. She's non-judgmental and always patient with others. And she loves her
children, grandchildren and all the 'in-laws' as in daughter-in-law etc
to bits!
Paternal Grandma
My
paternal grandma lives in Ang Mo Kio and I do not see her as often as my
maternal grandma. She was my primary caregiver when I was growing up
and as such, I have a strong bond with her. For many years of my life,
she cooked for me, washed my clothes, protected me from scolding,
pampered me when I had a bad day at school, brought me to the doctor,
listened to my rattling of my day's activities. She used to enjoy
cooking and her nonya rice dumplings and braised duck were utterly
delicious!
Through the passing years, they have grown older and became frailer. It is a reality that one day, these angels will watch me from afar. Yet for the time that they are here, I will do my best to savour the moments spent with them and TLC them. Angels. My grandmas.
