What do you believe in?

The beliefs you hold will have a positive or
negative impact on your life and being.

What do you believe in?

Does it propel you forward or keep you trapped in the past? Does it gift you joy or lock you in pain? Does it let you take desired action or paralyse you with fears?

Understanding about beliefs, how they affected me and changing my limiting beliefs was one of the key transformative tool for me. That was about 8 or 9 years ago? And to-date, it remains an important tool for inner awareness and change.

 

Your beliefs are like the operating system to your brain. They are one of the primary filters that determine what you delete and what you pay attention to. They determine how you perceive and interpret your experiences.

 

Beliefs act as self fulfilling prophecies. They act as permissions as well as blocks to what we can do. They have to be acted on if they are to mean anything; therefore beliefs are principles of action, not empty ideals.

Non useful beliefs are called limiting beliefs eg "I am stupid", "I am a failure", "I'm lousy at Maths", "Life is painful/ difficult", "I'll always be a failure", "I suck at relationships".

Beliefs are never absolutely true. For every belief, there is always a counter belief.

A client of mine held a limiting belief that he does not make a good partner after his ex-wife decided to leave him. As he went on a healing journey of awareness, change and action, he formed new powerful beliefs for a new phase of life. Today, he is happily remarried with a beautiful daughter.

 

Another client of mine could not see herself progressing in her career and felt that she could only be a sales executive. After a change of mindset and beliefs held, she is now a GM. A position she would never have dared to dream about when she held onto her limiting beliefs. The change happen within a short span of a few years. A big transformative (and I would happy!) leap for her.

 

Awareness of the beliefs you consciously or subconsciously hold is a great start to understanding yourself better. And a key to making any changes desired.

 

There are many literature available on change work involving beliefs. Or you might find it useful to engage a coach or therapist to journey with you.

 

 

 

Feeling happy without feeling guilty

I bumped into a friend while on my way for my reflective swim this morning. Haven't seen her for a long time.

Friend: "Hi, how have you been?"
Me: "I am good. On way for a swim."
Friend: "Good life"
Me: "Yes, taking a break today from work..."

Oops, I found myself starting to justify my good life. Did a mental STOP and then I continued happily chatting to her without feeling guilty about my good life. 

Yes, I am truly enjoying the positive flow of my life right now. I am happy and blissfully so. 

Yet it was only last week that I had a breakthrough: I was finally able to fully embrace and enjoy the happy and good flow of my current life without guilt that other people around me eg my clients, friends or family members are going through difficulties and challenges. I used to feel bad that life's so good for me now while others are still in pain. 

Now, I can continue to be a happy catalyst to others. And at the same time, fully enjoy being the happy me and my happy life.

Abundance for one and all

Last Friday, I met up with an FB friend Dennis Ng and he generously offered to help promote my book Fly Free on his website. I enjoyed my chat with him and it is obvious that he is someone who has an abundance mindset. He happily shared valuable advice with me even though it was our first meeting.

In all we do, keeping an abundance mindset, feeling abundant and being abundant allows greater joy to flow into our lives and the lives of others. We remain centred on goodness and love, for self and for others. Infinite abundance for everyone.

When we hold on tightly to our ego and sense of self worth, to fear of competition and our sense that we are not good enough, what follows is pain, self-centredness and a focus on self and only self. Scarcity mentality. That there is finite goodness to be shared so one must grab one's larger share. That we must compete in order to survive and succeed. Living in this sort of world is certainly not a blissful one.

We can begin to cultivate and live with an abundance mindset through (1) awareness and (2) putting it into practice in our daily living. When I first started living this, it was not on auto pilot. Before doing an action or when I felt an emotion, I had to ask myself "am I coming from a place of abundance or scarcity?". Through time and practice, it became easier and became a way of living. 


I enjoying living and being in this abundant universe, free from competition and petty emotions. And living in abundance also means attracting a continuous in-flow of goodness. 

Abundance for one and all. 

Intent. Ask. Attract. Manifest.

I have often shared about my experiences of the synchronicities of life and the amazing providence of the Universe. Today, I have another to share with you :)

Slightly more than a week ago, on the morning of Friday 15 April, I was doing my usual meditation. At the same time, decided to send an intention to the Universe asking for "something positive to happen so that I can reach out to more people... media exposure would be nice". Then I thought about the people I know in this field who have had media exposure and I celebrated their goodness and success (it is important in attraction work to have this abundant mindset and heart, where we can celebrate goodness happening to others). After sending out the intention, I left it as that and went about my busy day.

That afternoon, after a client's session, I checked my phone and saw a missed call from non familiar number and a few smses. One of them was this:

"Hi Bernadette, I am a producer with Mediacorp interested in featuring you on my relationship talkshow. Please call me back."

Wow.

I re-read the message, contacted her and that's how I ended up being guest on air for the lovely Michelle Martin's Between Us show , 938LIVE.

The programme was on Monday 18 May and am real glad it was just 3 days later because I had less time to worry about being on air live! It was my first radio show and as with all things new, had one or two butterflies flittering in my tummy.

The topic was on "Don't let shyness stop you from making love connections". Over the weekend, I prepared my notes, visualised the 'event' and sent happy energy to it as well.

My friends and family members were naturally excited and very encouraging. And their supportive and happy energy made it loads easier for me to go on my first radio show.

Monday night arrived, met Michelle at the studio and presto! we were on air. She's engaging and completely made me feel at ease. We chatted on the root cause of shyness in making the love connections, how to overcome shyness and tips for the shy in conversations. I thoroughly enjoyed myself and very appreciative to be given this experience.

Later in the week, Michelle asked me if I would like to join her again on Monday. This time, to talk about the points covered in my book Fly Free. Of course, I accepted the invite as it is an opportunity for me to reach out to more people who may be going through their dark nights of the soul.

Last night was the show and as we shared our thoughts with our listeners, I felt this immense joy that we can be beacon of light and hope for people who may be experiencing pain and challenges.

And I look forward to increasing opportunities to reach out to even more people.

Appreciating Goodness

After visiting my grandma and parents, I walked to Simei MRT to head for my next appointment. The walk is short and pleasant.

From a distance, I saw a jogger heading my way. I side-step to my left, this would allow the jogger to continue her momentum, and continued walking. When she was in front of me, she smiled and said thank you. I smiled at her in return. In that one second of exchange, our spirit were uplifted by goodness.

I was surprised that she noticed my small gesture. To me, these gestures come naturally and I do them because I want to. I am used to people's oblivious non awareness or disregard of them. Her smile, recognition and thank-you is a reminder of the importance of noticing and acknowledging kindness and goodness.

How often do we notice little acts of kindness instead of taking them for granted, thinking it is our right? Someone opening the door for us, a teacher giving us advice, our parents cooking dinner for us, a cleaner aunty or uncle carefully wiping the table so that we can use it, a kind soul giving up a seat on the MRT or bus... endless examples.

Appreciation for goodness will continue the unfolding flow of goodness.

Usher in a magical 2011

It is the last day of 2010 and and a brilliant time to let go of what’s past and create a world of possibilities for 2011.

If 2010 has been a fruitful year for you, then you can continue your new year on a positive note. Spend today filled with gratitude for the many blessings... a thankful heart leaves room for even more goodness to flow in.

If 2010 has not been a swell year for you, decide right now to let it go. Instead of focusing and wasting your energy on how awful or unhappy it had been, might as well focus your attention and energy on the brand new year ahead. 5 mins focusing on the negative is the same as 5 mins focusing on the positive. The difference is that the negative will hold you anchored to the past while the positive has an amplifying effect that can help to propel you forward. So focus your energy on what you want; not on what has already happened. Rather than rehash what went wrong (which is already in the past), why not focus on what could be better?

A useful starting question you can ask yourself is: What would make you happy?

If you don’t know what makes you happy, then most likely you will find yourself caught in an endless web of unhappiness. If you don’t know what makes you happy, then it is challenging or near impossible for anyone else in your life to help or give a little nudge. So if you desire to create a different life for yourself, spend some moments today thinking about what would make you happy.

As William Jennings Bryan says "Destiny is not a matter of chance, it is a matter of choice". I came across this quote during my dark nights and it has helped me to create the life I desire. In the same way, you too can start 2011 on a fresh new note.

So, as the brand new year dawns, may you experience joy, love, passion, laughter, fun and peace in all you do. May it be a time of new beginnings and the enjoyment of being. Happy new year!

Nice surprise!

One of my goals is to set up an Dream Catalyst fund which will provide the means for people to be a catalyst of joy and transformation to another person. The fund can be used to aid charitable causes, fund subsidised treatments for needy clients, to provide abundance cheer such as the CNY project we did this year or to help anyone in need.

So far, I've raised funds on an ad hoc basis by asking friends as well as my own contributions. My long term dream is that (1) my personal donation amount will increase as my business income increases and (2) through the good work we do, people will be inspired and decide to ask about making a contribution to help other people. No solicitation from our end. Just their own initiative and inner prompting.

On Monday, I received an unexpected sms from a client who would like to make a contribution to help those who cannot afford QT treatments. My client knows I often do pro-bono work for needy clients so no one is ever turned away. The beauty of this donation is that it offers an unexpected gift to the receivers and shows them the goodness of the universe and mankind.

On a personal note, I appreciate greatly this client's gift because I believe the amount donated is not what we would term as "spare cash". It means my client has to give up spending it on something else. What a generous meaningful gift!

Abundance Mentality

In all we do, keeping an abundance mindset, feeling abundant and being abundant allows greater joy to flow into our lives and the lives of others. We remain centred on goodness and love, for self and for others. Infinite abundance for everyone.

When we hold on tightly to our ego and sense of self worth, to fear of competition and our sense that we are not good enough, what follows is pain, self-centredness and a focus on self and only self. Scarcity mentality. That there is finite goodness to be shared so one must grab one's larger share.

As we move into Christmas and a brand new 2010, which would you choose?

Wallowing in Joy

I'm currently teaching Quantum-Touch to one of my aunts... in Mandarin. She's my uncle's wife and I was delighted when she expressed interest in learning it. I believe that it will help her to better the lives of her family and increase the flow of abundance.

My friend Ada generously offered to coach me to teach my workshop in Mandarin which is a relief as my aunt only speaks Mandarin and I'm certainly not fluent in it yet!

Yesterday was lesson 2 for my aunt and she's absolutely running the energy beautifully. Through synchronicity, her brother is in Singapore at the moment seeking treatment for a fracture in his arm and so my aunt has been QTing him as well to help speed up the healing process.

The lessons are held at my grandma's place and by default, my grandma's also learning it as well. Very happy for her! What's also wonderful is that my 3rd uncle who's living with her is also "soaking" up the good energy in the house whenever we practiced. He's had a history of mental unwellness and is a source of concern for my grandma. Last Tuesday during our first lesson, he happily agreed to be a client and received treatment for a headache. Last Saturday, he woke up energised and started to clean the windows and house. He's not done any housework for many many years! My heart was overwhelmed with joy when I heard this!

As for my grandma, there's also a happy shift in her energy. For about a year, she's complained of aches and pains and lack of energy. Probably suffering from mild depression as well. Another aunty and I have been QTing her. Right now, she's feeling happier and now, has the energy to go for her morning exercise sessions as well as to volunteer for 2 hours each day at the Lotus Light centre below her block.

That's why I am wallowing in joy! I am very very happy that I have a tool to help my own family. My grandma took care of me lovingly when I was young and so, I feel blessed to be able to take care of her too.

Growing Your Passion

I'm off to Hong Kong next week to run a live Basic Quantum-Touch workshop, a Enhance Your Chakras workshop as well as see clients for private sessions. My first workshop was in Dec last year and I had a thoroughly great time .

A question that people asked me is "how do you advertise for your workshop? where do your clients come from?"

Those are good questions. Those are amazing questions because the answers to those always fill me with a deep sense of awe and wonder. The only mode of "advertising" that I do at the moment is an email flyer to friends and past participants, information on the Quantum-Touch website and this blog. And then, I meditate and send out intentions to the universe. My intention is for abundance, love, joy and peace. My intention is that whoever that needs a catalyst of transformation for their lives will find me. Then I allow and wait.

That's when it happens. Unexpected emails from people, connection through friends and unexpected help for example, recently, a very nice lady from Hong Kong emailed me to offer me a free listing on their website The Source Asia for my workshops in Hong Kong.

For me to run workshops in another country, it is only possible if I have friends in those places who generously offer their help to source for venues etc. Scotland was possible because of my dear friend Marilyn. Likewise, Hong Kong is possible because of my dear friend May. I am grateful to them.

At the moment, I am growing my passion at a comfortable and stable pace to steadily establish my reputation for providing beneficial, professional and effective service. I am growing it at a balanced pace because I love having the time and space for self-development, personal being time and to pursue other interests.When it is time to grow it faster, I would have a firm foundation to take it to greater heights.

Gratitude

The past months have been transforming ones - joyous uplifting moments, painful lessons learnt, blissful and tranquil states, enriching learnings - all important for my life journey and growth.

This new phase of life or the pulling through of those lessons would not have been possible without the concern, encouragement and love shown by my family, friends and clients.

It is in living a life of gratitude that we can enJOY life even more. And so I am very grateful to:

• God for his love. Knowing that He's there and basking in his presence soothes, warms and enlivens.
• My parents. For allowing me to grow into who I am in spite of their concerns and reservations about the paths I chosen in my life to-date. It is certainly not easy for them.
• My sister for her courage to follow her dreams. She inspires me to follow mine.
• My other family - Gabriel and Karen for truly being here for me, for patiently accepting me and the painful pangs of growth. My godsons Joshua and Javen who makes me smile and strengthen my resolve to continue with this path.
• My friends who have blessed me with their showers of care and concern.
• My clients for their trust and belief in me as well as their kindness and thoughtfulness in providing referrals for me.

I am enjoying this new path of being. Most of all, I am grateful for all the different people in my life who have made this a possibility. Thank you.

My Article in Quantum-Touch Newsletter, Vol 6 Issue 2

I was approached by the QT office to write an article for their newsletter on how learning QT has changed my life. The article was just published and what's really nice is that the article has connected me with other like-minded people who read it.

Abundancestorming!
Making Dreams Come True
by Bernadette Chua CQTPI

When I accepted my friend Yvonne's invitation to attend her Quantum-Touch workshop in 2005, I didn't know the impact that a simple yes would have on my life and the lives of others around me.

Abundancestorming, that’s the most apt word to describe my life since I discovered QT. Among all the tools I’ve picked up through the years eg NLP and coaching, I found energy work to be the tool that effects the quickest positive transformation in my life and the lives of the people I connect with through QT workshops. The abundant changes are on physical, mental, emotional, financial as well as social dimensions.

Physically, I am the healthiest that I’ve been in my life. No longer do I diet nor binge and more importantly, I am totally comfortable with and love my body! Mentally, doing energy work has enabled me to shift from a poverty mindset to an abundant mindset. Emotionally, I now have a very effective tool to manage my emotions whenever I need an extra dosage of sunshine.

On the social dimensions, through QT I have expanded my social circle within Singapore as well as overseas. One of my close friends who lives in Scotland which is a long way off from Singapore started off as my first paying client. Since being certified as an instructor in May, I’ve taught workshops in Singapore as well as in Hong Kong and Scotland – teaching, travelling and be-ing at the same time!

Financially, with the extra income generated from my therapy sessions, I was able to pay off the last of my outstanding loans, a year quicker than I planned . And in November last year, I made the decision to quit my job to focus on this growing passion. As my own boss, I now have greater flexibility of time for work, play, coaching my participants, write my book, pursue interests and simply just be.

On a personal note, learning QT and the disciplined practice sessions reawakened and further enhance my intuitive abilities. For example, from not being able to visualise nor feel my own chakras at my first QT workshop, I am now able to effectively scan and enhance my clients' chakras and provide them with in depth insights for greater self-awareness so that they feel even more aligned, happier and balanced.

Life is indeed very different for me. Today, I am living the life I dreamt about years ago during my darkest nights of the soul – a happier life where I get to travel, to meet new friends from all over the world, debt-free and to be a dream catalyst of change for both myself and the people around me. Perhaps I would have achieved this dream life in time to come but I am certain that with QT, it sped up the manifestation process and I am so glad to have this life-changing tool!

This is the reason why I am truly passionate about QT and desire to teach as many people this transformational tool. The fact that you are reading this means that you too, are a fellow light worker and I thank you for being you! As the world goes through a new phase of beginnings, your positivity and light is indeed much needed!

Be light. Be love.
Bernadette Chua
Certified QT Instructor/ Practitioner
Dream catalyst by profession and passion Singapore

Gratitude. Focus. Fly Free!

This past half year has been an exhiliarting journey of new discoveries, deeping of giftings and meeting new friends.

As we move into a season of love and a brand new abundant year, it is a time for us to take stock of our achievements and have gratitude for all the opportunities and blessings. It is also a time for us to reflect so that we can focus to build an even better year ahead.

For me, I am grateful for the blessings and opportunities since I received my certification as a QT instructor in May. I did my first workshop in June, took a break in July and August to help my friend Yvonne and continued with my own workshops in September. To-date, I've conducted 9 workshops, with 2 of them in Hong Kong and Scotland thus fulfilling my dream to be an international instructor. Yay! I've certified 77 students with my youngest at 10 years and my oldest at 84 years. One of them, Owen, is now a certified practitioner himself!!

Through the workshops, I have expanded my social circle as well as my client base. Through their encouragement and affirmations, I took the bold step to fly free and this month, I abundancestorm and finally cleared the outstanding debts from my ex-marriage.

Thank you:

• God for being you :)
• Daddy, Mummy and Sis! This journey would not have been possible without your support.
• Friends for your support and affirmations! I am blessed by your friendships!
• Participants for giving your 120% at workshops and thus, challening me to be an even better instructor. I have learnt so much from all of you!
• Clients for your trust in my abilities to be a catalyst of positive transformation for you and more importantly, for the trust in yourself as a healer. You are the healer, not I. And it's an absolute joy to be a witness to your healing process as you take the steps to transform your lives! So proud of all of you!
• Fellow therapists! I have learnt so much from your sharing and insights!
• QT team! Without your support, it would not be possible to go on this journey.
  
  

I have also grown in my giftings and have been exposed to new methodologies and new interests. Last night, I had an important conversation with my bestest friend. It's good to have new interests yet at the same time, it is also important for us to stay focus so that we can deepen and not be breadth shallow. As such, I have decided that for 2009, I will focus on:

• Further enhancing my QT workshops. I love sharing and teaching about QT because it is such an useful tool.
• Deepening my chakra scanning abilities and giftings
• Further enhancing my chakra workshop
• Completing my first book and start on the 2nd one
• One to one sessions for Chakra Scan & Energetic Enhancement sessions as well as emotional relief
  

Exciting year ahead!!!

PS: I know what is happening in the world. I choose to focus to write on positive happenings. I cannot change what has happened, I can change my response to it. And thus, I choose to focus on positivity and encourage my friends and circles to do so as well. If we entrain to negativity, it is a negative spiral down down down. When we choose collectively to focus on goodness and positivity, healing and growth begins.

Fly Free!

In the past year, I have shared about my passion for energy work, about my experiences and evolving state. About the sheer joy when I work with clients to achieve their outcomes, the sheer joy when I teach QT and the sheer joy when I can be a catalyst of positive change.

At the same time, I also held a full time job as a Corporate Trainer. And that has been my struggle. It's been a real real struggle balancing the two - job plus energy work, not just in terms of time or physically. But the real struggle lies in the stark contrast in the emotional and spiritual nature of both work.

I know that in the past year, I have to be practical and hang onto my full time job and I did. Also to grow my gift. Right now, the calling and prompt is so so strong to focus and grow this area that I know/ trust that I must take the leap and soar. And I did!

I've taken the step to Fly Free. It is an exciting and exhilarating time!

Aha! Another Reason to Learn QT!

I had a very interesting conversation with a friend recently. Very useful insights that I cannot not share it with you!!!!!! It's another reason to learn energy work!! I'm not mentioning my friend's name cos' I do not know if this dear friend wants to be quoted.

Everything on earth follows the “classical” science, aka Four Elements – Earth, Water, Fire, Air. There is a fifth element, or spiritual energy, which is termed as Aether or Ether. Our thoughts are Air energy and in spiritual studies we believe that each person has a consciousness belonging to his/her soul. The soul communicates with one’s earthly body using the medium called Ether and this is transformed into Air energy like
thoughts and ideas.

Earth is the physical manifestation of objects, Water is about feelings and emotions, Fire is about motivation and the passion for life, Air is about thoughts and ideas. There is physical manifestation of each element, like Water’s physical is water, Fire physical manifestation is fire…. so on and so forth.

But the key difference between sentient and non-sentient beings is the soul/consciousness. Air also represents Science because of the
logical processing and thought required to analyze, critique, and formulate ideas. Astrology is a product of Air energy and it does not interfere directly with the Ether connections or consciousness of others, thus not affecting the Earthly bodies.

When trained, we can channel the Air energy in the Earthly realm to connect back to Ether and “attract” or “create” our future. This is also known as visualization. For those gifted who can sense vibrations packed with consciousness (Ether manifestation), the Water energy in those people is usually quite abundant.

Visualization taps onto the Ether realm, which helps to attract like-minded consciousness to the visualizer (via vibrations). It is powered by intent. So when someone’s intent is to destroy someone else’s intent, then there will be repercussions because of the clash of opposites. By sending out negative vibrations, the sender also attracts negative vibrations (hence the term we attract like-minded). So it is very dangerous to dabble in “black” magic or spiritual work involving “negative” intents.

Things about astrology can only be 100% true if we allow it to rule over us. If we do not creatively visualize our future, then science/astrology/probability/life-trends will rule over us to dictate the future. Again, we are not robots (meaning we have five elements; not four only. Because we have consciousness). We can access Ether via Air channels to attract what we want. The key is Practice, Practice, Practice.

The most important is the intent driving the four elements; regardless of all the types of energy work we are involved in.

WOW!! I am so excited! Do you comprehend the full magnitude of these insights!!!???!!!! It also explains why I feel such a strong calling to move into this direction, this strong desire to share and teach as many people, and the strong pull to specialise in chakra work using my gifts. My mission in life is to be a dream catalyst and energy work is one of the ways to help people transform their lives.

It also explains why I felt that among all the tools I have learnt through the years, it was when I learnt energy work that my life changed the fastest, that the dream life I desired way back started to materialise at a much quicker pace!

Now I understand.

PS: Am also finally grateful for the fact that I have "water retention" since water abundance is water energy right? :)

Accept Opportunities!

As you know, I am open to learning about things and consider most things as useful tools. As such, I absolutely have no qualms consulting about my future aka Astrology. I also have friends who SEE and I absolutely love consulting them too. I consider their gifting as tools and not "religion" so am not bounded by what they have to shared yet can utilise them to better my life. Open yet flow. As I often share with people, Quantum-Touch is also a tool and a very useful one at that. While I respect people's model of the world and non acceptance, it would be utter foolishness not to at least be open to hear about it then decide if it's a tool that would be useful to you at this time.

Accept Opportunities. That's one of the themes for a book that I am writing. If I was not open to accepting opprtunities to learn for example, to attend my very first Quantum-Touch workshop or the very first NLP seminar and accepting opportunities to better my life for example when Marilyn offered to do her emotional detox process for me or when Kenneth offered to read my basic chart, life would not be what it is today!

Attending the NLP seminar opened up a whole new world and helped to be an even more effective trainer and now, a therapist. I met Kenneth through another NLP workshop that I attended and hence, benefitted from his reading for me. The first time was in end 2005 and it helped me to shift from a poverty mindset mentality to abundant mentality. From being worried about money to feeling good about abundance.

When I accepted Yvonne's offer to attend her very first Quantum-Touch workshop, I was totally skeptical yet I decided to attend it. Gosh, am sure glad I did!!! Through QT, Marilyn found me cos' she was my first paying client! She soon became a very dear friend and on one of her trips here, she offered to do her emotional detox process for me. I thank her for this gift because it helped me to completely feel the same and yet different. All my negative triggers that have been anchored in the past were removed. And I needed the process to help me heal from a terrible break up. Now, I often recommend Kenneth and her to my clients cos' I know how useful it is! Because of her, my workshop in Scotland is possible. And so on.... there are countless other connections that I've made through the years which were possible only because I was open to accepting opportunities.

Of course I am not asking you to blindly accept all opportunities that come your way. Accept opportunities that are positive in intent, win win outcomes for all and above all, you feel 100% good about it (being skeptical is good so it doesn't count as a negative emotion).

Life can be very different when you do as I have discovered!

Abundance Mentality

Abundance mentality, that is a term that I came across years ago and since then, have followed. In this economic environment, it is even more important for us to continue to be abundant to those who needs our understanding and help. Abundance mindset is for all times, not just for good times. If one isn't able to contribute financially, one can also do so with time.

As such, I have adopted the Safe Haven Project as my charity. The project, initiated and managed by my friend Val Whyte, seeks to help restore the village of Legok in Indonesia which was affected by the tsunami of 2004. The funds goes to the maintaining of the Fly Free School and a clinic which supplies education and health needs for 100’s of individuals.

I am dedicating 10% of all profits from my Quantum-Touch workshops and one to one sessions to The Safe Haven Project. Thus providing an opportunity for participants and clients to help themselves and in the process, help others to lead a happier life. Wonderful energy, isn't it?

For more information on The Safe Haven Project, please log onto www.safehavenproject.com. You can also choose to make a direct donation. I know that every any amount will be greatly appreciated!

Wallowing in Abundance

I chanced upon this beautiful surreal sight during one of my morning walks.

I've titled it "Reflected Connectedness"

Been wanting to post but couldn't find the space or frame to write. Do you remember my post on me feeling a positive shift in my reality?

Well, things have been happening at such a fast speed that each day I leap out of bed excited to be thrilled by the abundance it'll bring. I'm constantly grateful, in awe and amazed! Here are few exciting and abundant happenings:

• An unexpected increase in number of clients who signed on packages and I'm getting queries almost every day on treatments/ sessions.
• As for my upcoming QT workshop in Sept, I've been getting queries and sign-ups everyday since last week
• Yesterday, the owner of a training venue (I'm not naming him yet cos' I've not checked with him if he would like to be "publicised".) generously offered me usage of his venue including projector. What this means is that I can now offer better discounts to those who need it and invite people (with financial constraints) to attend for free. I could not do that initially cos' my parents' home is too small to host too big a group.
• I discovered that I can now scan people's chakras remotely/ distance and I do not even have to know them for eg they can be friends of a friend. My intuitive insights are also getting stronger, even more accurate and precise.
• I am also achieving amazing results together with my clients (this is important cos' client and therapist work hand in hand to achieve outcomes) and getting even better at what I do.
• More work projects and opportunities are coming up for my company which is excellent cos' my boss is truly a nice person and I'm happy that we're going to do even better. For me personally, I love new projects and thrive best in a diverse creating environment. :)
• Even on my personal front, I'm meeting wonderful new people everyday

The reason why I am sharing with you is just to affirm that life does get better. It hasn't always been easy and I've faced my fair share of dark nights of the soul. BUT life gets better when you choose to consciously make it so and work on ridding yourself of non useful limiting beliefs.

My lovely friend Marilyn shared this with me a couple of days ago: "I was just smiling and thinking how the flow is working even better for you as you are accepting and allowing the energy ($) to come to you now, its as if the universe is saying AT LAST! now I'll do even more for you!"

And that's so true! Up till last week, I still had remnants of "feeling bad about charging for my services especially if they're friends". Now that's an issue for me cos' I do consider most people I meet as "friends". If they start out as complete strangers and I start treatment for them, then eventually they become friends too and I feel bad once again charging them for my services. See how this could be non useful for me? Cos' I feel bad to charge, my friends feel bad to ask me for further help and thus they don't get to benefit from my sessions etc.

Then a defining moment came two weeks ago. I was at dinner with a friend when she shared with me about a health concern that she's currently facing. This lovely close friend is QT-trained yet I know that she's so busy with work and caring for others that she probably will not spend the time needed to care for herself. As such, I went with my intuition and flow and asked her to consider getting QT sessions from me weekly (a package of 4 sessions) before she goes for next medical checkup. I must confess, I still felt bad at that point about charging so I told her she can pay small token fee cos' I know she wouldn't agree to free sessions.

My friend was absolutely delighted with the suggestion, it hasn't even occurred to her! What's also wonderful is that she will complement my weekly session with short daily sessions thus a kick start to her practicing QT again. She graciously accepted a discount but not the token fee, reminding me that I have to rid myself of this totally non useful belief or discomfort. I graciously accepted that I needed to change and comfortably embraced the abundance. We're both excited for her to go for her medical check up because we are certain that her results will be excellent!

Two days after that defining moment, another friend called seeking treatments (long term too) and because I was totally comfortable with discussing about fees that's win-win for both, she happily took up the sessions. I realised later that she wouldn't have engaged me otherwise cos' she sees the sessions as a business engagement, payment in return for services rendered.

Three days after that defining moment, another friend called seeking treatments (long term too) and... you know the rest of the story.

Four days after that defining moment, enquires and sign-ups started to come in for my Sept workshop.

My shift in mindset is critical and important in my own journey. Without the shift, my friends cum clients wouldn't have benefitted from my sessions otherwise. The results we're experiencing are amazing. I'm grateful to have experienced this shift.

I am not suggesting that we've to become cash-focused. Rather, to become abundance-focused and to recognise that by that, it also means allowing abundance to flow into your life too and not just others! We can continue to share abundance for example, for my long term clients, I surprise them with gift sessions ie charge them for 3 instead of 4. Or send them extra short booster sessions etc. Or use the abundance to benefit others like that aunty or uncle selling tissue paper.

Abundance for you and others.

Shift in Reality

A couple of weeks back, during a meditative QT session, I felt a "shift in my reality". It felt like patterns were broken and the emergence of new trends in my life. The feeling is getting stronger and it feels good so I'm going to wallow in it!

Abundance Mentality

Abundance mentality is a lovely way of life, a mindset and attitude of generosity and giving. It is benchmark that we, especially if we're passionate about energy work, can strive towards. It is a frame of mind in which a person believes there is "enough for everyone".

Abundance mentality is a principle and value that I've used as a guide to help me be an even better and congruent person. For a positive self-journey of growth.

Yesterday, it struck me that I can also apply this value to my QT practice and share abundance. Over time, I've gotten a sense of the type of "ailments" that I am more effective in treating. So what I've decided to do is to only see clients who are looking for therapy in these areas. If a client calls seeking treatment for an ailment that isn't within these areas, I will recommend him to another fellow QT therapist who may have more experience or expertise in this area. Share abundance for both that therapist and the client.

And this is why, if you're a regular to this blog, you would have noticed that I've listed the therapy sessions that I'm now offering. Streamlined for greater flow of abundance to myself and others around me.